
In the spirit of Crabapple Farms' post on Mother's Day, I want tp note a few of the great things about my Dad:
I'll start with a list of some great memories
Perhaps the earliest I can recall is a trip to Market Lake when I couldn't have been more than four. I can remember being scared to death of a goose I must have frightened off her nest.
In second grade, during a class on cowboys or the old west, I boasted to my teacher that
my dad could play real cowboy songs on the guitar. When Mrs. Vargason invited him to class a week or so later to perform, I
knew I had the greatest dad in the world.
For several years, my great goal in life was to be an artist, and I remember dad taking time to sit down and draw with me. His picture would inevitably be of a jet!
I have great memories of spending evenings with him building the perfect Pinewood Derby car--and learning about good sportsmanship when he offered our "secret" graphite lubricant to my friends.
Dad has a great, unusual talent in being able to facilitate youthful adventure. An olympic torch made from a cattail and kerosene stands out as a prime example.
Years later in high school, when another "adventure" ended disasterously with my brother's arm in flames, his patience and calmness in dealing with the aftermath was a lesson in forebearance I'm still learning from.
Though these activities and countless others, he's taught me so much:
- How to use wood tools
- How to shoot a gun
- How to prune a tree
- How to pour concrete
- How to change the oil
- How to solve a multi-variable algebra equation
- How to play the guitar
- How to use the Priesthood
- How to treat your wife
He's taught me how to love the outdoors, to love my country, to love the church I belong to.
In the desk drawer of my office is a single page from my old Bible. One column has a good-sized smudge on it, a combination of grease, dirt, and other gunk that gets on your hands when working on cars. It summarizes so much about what I admire in Dad.
It was a Saturday afternoon, and Dad and the boys were repairing another of the Ricks family fleet of cars, when a relative telephoned with an urgent question of the soul. Grabbing the nearest set of scriptures--which happened to be mine--Dad expertly resolved her concern, and calmed a troubled heart. The fact that this relative would choose to call Dad, and that he was willing, able, and spiritually in tune to address those needs--when only seconds before he was engaged in his everyday life--is just another reason of why I admire him so much.
Dad, I love you.